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September 23, 2018

I'm Losing against My Grandson, and Loving It

September 23, 2018/ Beverly Beckham
I'm Losing against My Grandson, and Loving It

My grandson, Adam, who is 14, is annihilating me. We are playing "Words with Friends 2." a game similar to Scrabble, only it's faster and more fun because it can be played on a phone, tablet, or a computer, anywhere, any time. Sometimes we play…

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September 23, 2018/ Beverly Beckham/
Childhood, Grandkids, Grandparenting
September 16, 2018

Visiting a Farm is a Joy You Never Outgrow

September 16, 2018/ Beverly Beckham
Visiting a Farm is a Joy You Never Outgrow

My family teases me about how much I love Davis Farmland. I visited for the first time in 2009 and…

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September 16, 2018/ Beverly Beckham/
Entertainment, Family, Sons and Daughters, Childhood, Grandkids, Places
September 09, 2018

When Trickle-Down Effect of Disrespect Becomes a Flood

September 09, 2018/ Beverly Beckham

It is early afternoon on a weekday and Katherine and I are leaving the Red Wing in Walpole after enjoying a heaping plate full of fried scallops and clams, which the restaurant cooks to perfection. Katherine, who is 90 and blind…

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September 09, 2018/ Beverly Beckham/
Issues
August 11, 2018

The Heart-Wrenching Chore of Cleaning Out

August 11, 2018/ Beverly Beckham
The Heart-Wrenching Chore of Cleaning Out

The names are separated on opposite pages in an old Hallmark datebook, the kind that card stores used to give away. The girls are listed on the left…

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August 11, 2018/ Beverly Beckham/ 2 Comments
Friends, Memories
July 27, 2018

Quotes touch our hearts and help our spirits heal

July 27, 2018/ Beverly Beckham
Quotes touch our hearts and help our spirits heal

It’s late on a Sunday night, almost Monday morning, and I am on my iPad googling Glennon Doyle Melton. My daughter Julie told me to read Melton’s book, “Love Warrior, A Memoir” two years ago. Sunday, I finally got around to it. I read it in a day. And at the end of the day, I wanted more…

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Love, Issues
July 15, 2018

Kids These Days — Well, Actually, They Get Involved

July 15, 2018/ Beverly Beckham

I'm starting with Jenny Wolicki because she is the reason I began to notice all the good and selfless things that young people do…

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July 15, 2018/ Beverly Beckham/
Issues, People
July 01, 2018

She Is Loved by Family and Friends. Isn't That Everything?

July 01, 2018/ Beverly Beckham
She Is Loved by Family and Friends. Isn't That Everything?

I wasn't there. Only the parents had tickets. Schools aren't big enough to accommodate all the grandparents and aunts and uncles and friends who would like to be present at an eighth-grade graduation. So we get pictures and…

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July 01, 2018/ Beverly Beckham/
Family, Grandkids, Lucy, Down syndrome
June 17, 2018

Tell Me, Dad. Please, Tell Me about You.

June 17, 2018/ Beverly Beckham
 Tell Me, Dad. Please, Tell Me about You.

'Tell me, Dad. Please, tell me about you." That's what I would say to my father if I could sit with him at his kitchen table one more time. I spent so many hours…

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June 17, 2018/ Beverly Beckham/
Family, Fathers
June 03, 2018

Opening My Eyes to a Nazi Cruelty

June 03, 2018/ Beverly Beckham

Lebensborn. It means "Fountain of Life" or "Spring of Life," and was a Nazi program designed by the Heinrich Himmler, the head of the German Gestapo and SS, to create a master Aryan race. It's a word that I had to look up…

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June 03, 2018/ Beverly Beckham/
Issues
May 20, 2018

Some Thing Better Left UnGoogled

May 20, 2018/ Beverly Beckham

Yesterday, bright and early, while still on my first cup of coffee, my daughter Julie forwarded me an article about sponges. "You Should Throw Away Your Germy Kitchen Sponge Immediately," I read along with the cheery fact that…

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May 20, 2018/ Beverly Beckham/
Issues
May 06, 2018

Rebirth and Renewal Outside

May 06, 2018/ Beverly Beckham

It survived the winter. I don't know how. Everywhere — across the street, down the street, all over town — bigger trees with longer histories and better pedigrees lay uprooted and dead, felled by ice and wind and cold...

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May 06, 2018/ Beverly Beckham/
Seasons
April 22, 2018

A Genius Idea to Preserve Youth

April 22, 2018/ Beverly Beckham

I swear I am not snooping. My granddaughter Charlotte leaves her essays open on my computer, and when I log on there they are, big as life, right in front of me. How can I not read them? Her essays, FYI, are not a private diary. They are part of…

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April 22, 2018/ Beverly Beckham/
Childhood, Grandkids, Seasons of Life
April 08, 2018

Bound to a Stately, Fading Past

April 08, 2018/ Beverly Beckham
Bound to a Stately, Fading Past

They aren't even mine. I inherited them. They came with my husband not on the day we were married but not long after, a set of encyclopedias, which had lived in his bedroom when he was growing up. "Take them," his mother must have said.

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April 08, 2018/ Beverly Beckham/
Memories, Letting go
March 25, 2018

“Every Note Played” Guts You

March 25, 2018/ Beverly Beckham

Mostly what I want to do is copy her words. It's how I started out, when I was a teenager, copying the words of the best writers, slowly, in cursive, in a small notebook, hoping that…

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March 25, 2018/ Beverly Beckham/
Books and films
March 11, 2018

Too Much Information? I forget.

March 11, 2018/ Beverly Beckham

I'm feeling a little better, but only a little better, because (A) my daughter, who is decades from qualifying for a senior discount, cannot remember the gist of a seminar she attended last week. She came home singing its praises, full of…

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March 11, 2018/ Beverly Beckham/
Books and films, Growing old
February 25, 2018

Out of Tune with Technology

February 25, 2018/ Beverly Beckham

The knobs are long gone, so turning on a television isn't quite as easy as it used to be. Charlotte is on the telephone instructing me. She's trying…

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February 25, 2018/ Beverly Beckham/
Growing old, Lucy, Down syndrome, Grandkids
February 11, 2018

A Little Girl with a Big Heart

February 11, 2018/ Beverly Beckham
A Little Girl with a Big Heart

Elizabeth Dawe is a beautiful little girl who doesn't realize how much she's been through, that life's been harder for her than it's been for her siblings and cousins and friends. The soon-to-be 9-year-old — her birthday is Feb. 12 — was born with…

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February 11, 2018/ Beverly Beckham/
Childhood, Issues, People
January 28, 2018

Learning to Stop at “I'm Sorry”

January 28, 2018/ Beverly Beckham

'I'm sorry," my friend Michael said. He wasn't even in the room yet. He had just opened the door and was in mid-step when…

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January 28, 2018/ Beverly Beckham/
Issues, Epiphanies
January 14, 2018

A Golden Opportunity to Remember

January 14, 2018/ Beverly Beckham
A Golden Opportunity to Remember

I was Beverly Theresa Curtin back then. Twenty years old. A senior at Bridgewater State, the college my father chose for me. I commuted. He bought me…

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January 14, 2018/ Beverly Beckham/
Love, Marriage
December 31, 2017

A World of Love and Hope

December 31, 2017/ Beverly Beckham
A World of Love and Hope

They have been my surprise silver lining in 2017, Facebook posts from a guy I barely know about a baby I've never met. Words and photos that gripped me from the start, that made me hope and gave me hope, and that continue, every day, to make me smile.

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December 31, 2017/ Beverly Beckham/
Babies, Fathers, Love, Parenting
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